
Happy me didn’t suddenly appear one day. It has been a journey for me. Learn from lessons and doing wrongs and taking wrong decisions, regretting all day long. Crying and being alone all this feels before you can say “happy me”.
As everyone must experience some kind of pain that will help them to feel that feeling of happiness.
Climbing the mountains is a struggle, losing our energy, fighting through the winds, and crossing all obstacles. Now that you’re on top of that mountain you can see that mesmerizing view. Which gives that beautiful feeling of happiness. And it becomes an unforgettable lesson or you can say memory in life.
We all need to learn from every tiny thing happening in life. Every person in our life gives us a lesson.
1.Forgiving others
So I’m recently reading this book from which I learned that forgiving others is step 1 for letting yourself free from all the anger, unhappiness, and grudges. It is not just that we are forgiving for their needs, it is for our benefit, it’s for our selfishness.
We are making ourselves free from that trap of unhappiness and grudges feeling.
2. Accepting that changes
Accepting that change is a part of life. Every single person changes as the situation of that person’s life changes. Bad situation or good makes us mold in our behavior. If I have to grow and glow so I have to accept all those faults and learn from them.
Accepting ourselves is the second step for that happy me.
3. Kind to yourself and others
Being a kind person doesn’t require cost, instead, it requires effort to be kind. Now there is one task for you, just observe yourself what things you talk to yourself, are the kind words? Are they criticizing words? Or have you been rude to yourself?
Be kind is the 3rd step: Talk to yourself even while you are thinking or talking to others.
4. Admire instead of compare
As we are the young generation of this world. We phase this problem often while using social media apps, most of the time we compare ourselves with those other people and end up upsetting ourselves.
So instead of that, I learned this new trick, which is that we should admire them as one of our goals in our life, and chase those goals till we reach them.
Doesn’t it sound so positive and motivating? I think you should definitely try this.
Let us know your opinions in the comments. thank you for all the love and support.
-By Gayatri
















