21 things I learned in 21 years

Hello cuties, it’s my birthday special blog. Sharing all the 21 things I observe, analyze and understand in my life. So you can learn from it. This year I learn a lot, meet many people, virtually and in real too. I am growing, changing, and honestly becoming a better person from last year. Can’t believe I am 21 already.

1. Bring joy from the little moment in your life. It can be a compliment someone gives you or you gave it to someone else. That brings a smile all day long.

2. Don’t keep high expectations from the people. 

3. Believe in abilities, you are a capable person and you are enough. 

4. Don’t force your decision on someone else. Accept the reality of life.

5. Don’t get jealous, if other people are one step ahead of you,  admire them. 

6. Don’t be competitors, be collaborative. Support each other, a get together to your goals. 

7. Starting might be tough, but in the end, you are the one level up from the previous you.

8. Believe in the process, you will get amazing results.

9. Take responsibility even if you feel you can’t handle it, cause there is no way going back after getting responsibility you have to do it.

10. You become like a person you surround yourself with.

11. Gratitude is a key to happiness.

12. Everything is temporary, good or bad.

13. Experience is the best teacher.

14. Evaluate people based on their actions not on their words.

15. Failure isn’t bad as long as you learn from it.

16. Priority is your health first, then work.

17. Motivational videos won’t work unless you are willing to work.

18. Rest is not a waste of time.

19. Imposter syndrome is real – but don’t let it spoil your life.

20. Not every relationship is meant to last forever.

21. You can change your life if you want to.

Let me know in the comments which one resonates the most with you.

Have a nice day. Keep spreading love and positive energy.

Bye.

-By Gayatri

December Affirmations

Hey Cuties, welcome to the last month of 2021, I trust that our last month will go well. Today is the beginning of the new month that is also the last month of the year. We made it to December you all. At the beginning of the year and the whole covid experience, we were so scared of what’s happening to our mother earth. I’m really excited about the new month most especially because it is my birth month.

My birthday is on the 2nd Dec. I realized that I’ve not really introduced myself and the blog and I’ll be doing that on my birthday so feel free to drop your questions below for things you’ll like to know about me and the blog.

Now, for today’s post, we have our monthly dose of affirmations for the new month.

  1. I am blessed.
  2. I am grateful for my life.
  3. I am happy to be existing.
  4. I am grateful for my friends.
  5. I am grateful for my family.
  6. New doors are open to me.
  7. My life is amazing.
  8. I am talented.
  9. Miracles are happening in my life.
  10. I have an abundance of all I desire.
  11. I am the best version of myself.
  12. I am happy for all I have and know.
  13. I am grateful for everything that happened this year.
  14. My new year is going to be the best.

So there you have it, amazing affirmations for the last month of the year. Who else believes the next year is going to be the best?

Comment down your favorite affirmations and the ones you are going to be saying often. Don’t forget to leave a question for me to get to know me better.

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Keep smiling cuties. Enjoy your day.

~By Gayatri 🙂

Kind Words

Hello folks, so recently I heard a few harsh words from someone. I wanted to share my feelings from those experiences.

You are the speaker, but it doesn’t mean you can speak anything to anyone. Yes, you have a right to speak but you don’t have a right to hurt someone. Someone who has always been with you doesn’t mean, you should just be good with them for their sake.

Try to understand the situation first, then you can decide if you want to be on bad terms or good terms with them.

People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

                                                                                  `maya angelou.

The conclusion is, use kind words when you talk with others. They might get hurt, even can lose belief in people and in themselves too. The person you were to them before, might not remain the same as before.

How you treat them, they remember.

How you talk with them, they remember.

How you make them feel, they remember.

Be kind cuties, you have a beautiful smile to make others days

Bye.

-By Gayatri

To Lose Me Again – Poem

I can’t afford me,

To lose me again.

I can’t afford me,

To lose me for someone else.

I can’t afford me,

To lose me for being on someone else’s waiting list.

I can't afford me,

To lose my people.

I can’t afford me,

To lose my dreams.

-By Gayatri

November Affirmations

Let’s have the glory to end this year with a beautiful note. Start creating your dream life. These last 61 days of 2021 may bring you all the happiness in your life.

  • What I do and think matters.
  • I give out positivity wherever I go.
  • Today is going to be a good day.
  • Every day is a new learning day.
  • I’m enough and I’m beautiful.
  • I believe in my potential. 
  • Today is a fresh start.
  • It’s ok to ask for help.
  • I can attract anything I desire.

Thank you for reading. Grateful for having you as a part of my community.

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-By Gayatri

It’s you against you.

It’s you against your choice.

It’s your success or failure.

It’s procrastination or working hard.

It’s for dreams or just dreaming.

It’s you who decides to be an early bird or a night owl.

Stop neglecting yourself, it is now time to decide what to do.

Start taking steps today so you can meet better tomorrow.

To meet your future rather than regretting over your past.

Don’t get involved in the stuff which brings joy just for a spur of a moment.

Path might get tough but hold on dear your on the way to your dreams.

-By Gayatri

October Affirmations

Feeling overwhelmed until it comes to October. As for so long, we fight our battles for different reasons. One for getting in college admissions, passing out, getting graduated, and looking for jobs. Constantly battling for the next steps in our life.

For that these affirmations are for you:

  • There are many things that I cannot control, but there are always some I can; my next breath, closing my eyes, focusing on the love inside myself.
  • Being overwhelmed is not a sign of weakness or failure; it’s a sign that I love life and want to live it fully.
  • I cannot control what I feel right now, but I can control my next thought. I will pause and make it a positive one.
  • My heart carries limited space for what others are doing, but it is always fully interested and invested in what I am doing.
  • Overwhelm is not a sign of weakness or failure; it’s an opportunity to slow down.
  • Not knowing where to start is not the same as not being able to start.
  • Today I allow time for self-care and rejuvenation.
  • I have faith that this will all work out.
  • I am living in grace.
  • It is always okay to feel and do things differently compared to others.
  • I will not stay overwhelmed forever. It does not feel like it but time will ease the load I am carrying.
  • Feeling overwhelmed does not mean that I am incapable or too weak to do things. Overwhelm has no bearing on my ability or worth.

Thank you. Follow and like for more.

-By Gayatri

Time – Poem

To realize the value of one year;

Ask a student who has failed a final exam.

To realize the value of one month;

Ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realize the value of one week;

Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of one hour;

Ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.

To realize the value of one minute;

Ask the person who has missed the train, bus, or plane

To realize the value of one second;

Ask a person who has survived an accident.

To realize the value of one millisecond;

Ask the person who has won a silver medal in the Olympics

Time waits for no one. Treasure every moment you have. You will treasure it even more when you can share it with someone special.

-By Gayatri

Im-Perfection

Hello folks, I’m back with a new topic today. Im-perfection which we all are and that’s what makes us unique from others. Living a life with the same basic concept and keeping it continuing is just maintaining our consistency.

Looking at things with a perfection mindset is good but not everything can get perfect. Sometimes progressing is more important than being perfect and staying in one place.

Maintaining consistency is different for everyone. Some people like perfect consistency or the others like growing consistency.

Growing consistency will help you a lot to grow in life. As you do, you make mistakes, you learn and you improve from it.

One is perfectly fine with what they do, everyone just slips up.

We shouldn’t overthink and stress ourselves on it instead we should accept it and try to improve on it.

Progressing is the best choice we can make over perfection.

Feelings like devastation and comparing yourself, not good enough. Instead, I think I’m going to take a small step to build a better life cycle for myself.

I’m going to improve,

I’m going to learn from critiques,

I’m going to keep on trying to learn new things.

Do you prefer perfection or progress? Let me know in the comments…

Thank you for reading this, have a nice day.

  -By Gayatri

5 Things You Should Know

Making someone wait for you.

If I start right for the value of time it will become just another blog on it. Making someone wait is it’s just like leaving someone on reading in our gen z. That person is unable to focus on his or her task cause you said you are coming on time, but you still haven’t reached there yet.

Keeping the promise you make. 

Promises come with trust and trust comes with a belief in you. If you are promising someone you are making them believe in you. They believe in you, that you will not break that promise.

Once you break that promise u proportionally break their trust and believe in you from their eyes. It becomes so difficult for that person to believe in you for that next time you say “I will keep my word as I promised

Keep ego aside.

Many times when we help someone and have been with that person every time it reminds you how we have helped that person. But that person doesn’t recognize your help making your ego arise. Why should I help next time? Or the expectations in returns arise in our mind indirectly.

Ask yourself if you want to break things?

The bigger ego trip is getting rid of your ego.

Kindness winners.

Sometimes winning someone’s heart is easier with kind words than asking directly. Learn to be a sweet talker, try to have this kindness:

kind act every day.

I say please and thank you.

Nice friends are kind to me.

Doing nice things.

Nice words are always heard.

Everyone is nice to me.

Saying nice things is eBay to do.

So much kindness

Take action.

After coming a long way, I realized there were so many things I wanted to do that would have turned out to be different if I had taken that action at that time. I have been scared at that time was ok, but we should battle with our fear with the now or never action. You never know what would turn out the result for that. You might succeed or you might fail. But you always learn to remember that.

Thank you for your love, keep sharing, and like if you learned something new.

Let me know in the comments.

~By Gayatri