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Planner for 2022

Happy new year🎉🎊 , Hope you have a great journey this year, you grow and glow and continue to support each other.

Starting this year with a planner will help you to simplify and will give the clarity of what it will be like your 2022.

Make a note of this – This year I will …….

Fill in the blanks use to be the one of my favorite things during school…..

Now it time to reflect it in reality.

Start doing this ________________

Quit doing this ________________

Visit this places ________________

Learn this skills _______________

I will try this _________________

How you want to be like ___________

Eat this ________________

Improve this _________________

Make this ________________

Giveaway this ______________

Now take your diary , start thinking and write on this year goals

Keep spreading love ❤

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21 things I learned in 21 years

Hello cuties, it’s my birthday special blog. Sharing all the 21 things I observe, analyze and understand in my life. So you can learn from it. This year I learn a lot, meet many people, virtually and in real too. I am growing, changing, and honestly becoming a better person from last year. Can’t believe I am 21 already.

1. Bring joy from the little moment in your life. It can be a compliment someone gives you or you gave it to someone else. That brings a smile all day long.

2. Don’t keep high expectations from the people.

3. Believe in abilities, you are a capable person and you are enough.

4. Don’t force your decision on someone else. Accept the reality of life.

5. Don’t get jealous, if other people are one step ahead of you, admire them.

6. Don’t be competitors, be collaborative. Support each other, a get together to your goals.

7. Starting might be tough, but in the end, you are the one level up from the previous you.

8. Believe in the process, you will get amazing results.

9. Take responsibility even if you feel you can’t handle it, cause there is no way going back after getting responsibility you have to do it.

10. You become like a person you surround yourself with.

11. Gratitude is a key to happiness.

12. Everything is temporary, good or bad.

13. Experience is the best teacher.

14. Evaluate people based on their actions not on their words.

15. Failure isn’t bad as long as you learn from it.

16. Priority is your health first, then work.

17. Motivational videos won’t work unless you are willing to work.

18. Rest is not a waste of time.

19. Imposter syndrome is real – but don’t let it spoil your life.

20. Not every relationship is meant to last forever.

21. You can change your life if you want to.

Let me know in the comments which one resonates the most with you.

Have a nice day. Keep spreading love and positive energy.

Bye.

-By Gayatri

10 motivation ideas

1.Two-minute rule

Getting started is always the hardest part – make yourself work on a task for two minutes. Chances are, this will turn into a much longer period of focused work.

2.Self-evaluate

Understanding the problem at hand simplifies finding a solution. Analyze why you feel unmotivated, and what you can do about this underlying cause.

3.Gratitude List

Gratitude is a simple yet powerful helper when you feel down. When unmotivated, write a list of things you are grateful for, making it as extensive or as brief as you would like.

4.Physical exercise

Moving your body regularly not only releases endorphins but also reinforces your mental toughness and energy, your pursuits of your goals in all areas of your life.

5.Quick vision boards

Put together a collection of images that reflects what you want your life to look like in the future. Refer back to this to remind yourself of the bigger picture.

6.Affirmations and quotes

Write down the words that inspire you that you easily connect with. Even if it’s not directly related to motivation, recalling your quotes from our favorite authors can boost your mind and add up your energy levels.

7.Writing

Writing down all your clusters of emotions and starting with the new energy. It’s therapy.

8.Pomodoro technique

The Pomodoro technique helps stay focused for 25 mins and helps in relaxation for 5 mins, which makes your brain function more effectively.

9.Reverse psychology

Accept that you feel unmotivated and that you don’t have to do anything – you have a choice to pursue your goals and make the most out of the present moment.

10.Make it fun

Changing your mindset makes any task enjoyable. Write out any three things from your to-do list: is it challenging?

Thank you. Like, comment, and follow for more.

-By Gayatri

July Affirmations

Hey!! I realised we have already passed the half of 2021. How
fast this 6 months wents in a spur of the moment.Have you just
looked at your all resolutions which you made in January, did I
follow any of them ?
Many people forget it after a week.But you still have TIME to
continue doing that.As that’s, what we say are main goals for
years which will make you happy.
Making this month a happy month by these affirmations:
● I create the life I desire with my good feelings
● When I feel happy I manifest more reasons to be happy
● I accept that happiness is my true nature
● I am worthy of feeling happy
● My happiness comes from within me
● I am constantly creating everything my heart desires
● I experience joy in everything I do
● I feel happy with myself as a person
● I give myself permission to enjoy myself
● I allow myself to feel good
● The life I’ve always dreamed of is created by my choice to
be joyful now

Time management

Making you productive by giving the idea to think different. We have 168 hours a week. I heard this statement from a talk show. Where she was talking about time management. She was given experience on time management from where she had learned.

There was one person who was not willing to reply, to her mails and all the work related stuff.

So in short and in an easy way let me tell you the example of my friend.

I message her several times a day. And she didn’t reply to me nor did she answer my call. At one certain day I suddenly met her and asked what work you were stuck in. She didn’t even have time to reply to my messages, calls and mails.

And she was free to go for an outing with her family and friends and post all the pictures over social media. So she said “It is not about how busy I am, it’s not about my time management. I don’t care what you think or you are not my priority.”

I don’t care if it’s equal to it’s not my priority. So I came to a conclusion if there is something which I don’t want to work on means I don’t give my priority to those things.

There is a list of pending work in your desk and messed up in your mind. which you are procrastinating all of this while. Now you get to the point, why you were not able to do it because all that pending task are not your priority.

If it’s your priority then start making the time for it, analyze how much you waste time on that unwanted things wasting on the others.

To do list

Don’t make a long to-do list. It’s not going to work all the time, some things or other things are going to appear. It’s not your mind world , it’s a universe controlling us. Make a 3 priority goals for a day. Take a small step towards your goals.

It’s better to take the top priority of the day instead of long listed tasks, which might motivate you in the middle of a task, struggling to concentrate. All the tasks have to be completed today itself.

Awards might help you to keep up

After making the to-do list and priority tasks, give yourself rewards.it might be a small task, still reward yourself. Never forget to clap for your own efforts. Sometimes there might be no one to appreciate your efforts that time rewarding and clapping your efforts will uplift you to keep working.

What productive tasks do you do? How do you manage your time? Let me know in the comments.

Even though you are busy, never forget to give time or a smile to your loved ones.

bye-bye

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-By Gayatri

Happy me

Happy me didn’t suddenly appear one day. It has been a journey for me. Learn from lessons and doing wrongs and taking wrong decisions, regretting all day long. Crying and being alone all this feels before you can say “happy me”.

As everyone must experience some kind of pain that will help them to feel that feeling of happiness.

Climbing the mountains is a struggle, losing our energy, fighting through the winds, and crossing all obstacles. Now that you’re on top of that mountain you can see that mesmerizing view. Which gives that beautiful feeling of happiness. And it becomes an unforgettable lesson or you can say memory in life.

We all need to learn from every tiny thing happening in life. Every person in our life gives us a lesson.

1.Forgiving others

So I’m recently reading this book from which I learned that forgiving others is step 1 for letting yourself free from all the anger, unhappiness, and grudges. It is not just that we are forgiving for their needs, it is for our benefit, it’s for our selfishness.

We are making ourselves free from that trap of unhappiness and grudges feeling.

2. Accepting that changes

Accepting that change is a part of life. Every single person changes as the situation of that person’s life changes. Bad situation or good makes us mold in our behavior. If I have to grow and glow so I have to accept all those faults and learn from them.

Accepting ourselves is the second step for that happy me.

3. Kind to yourself and others

Being a kind person doesn’t require cost, instead, it requires effort to be kind. Now there is one task for you, just observe yourself what things you talk to yourself, are the kind words? Are they criticizing words? Or have you been rude to yourself?

Be kind is the 3rd step: Talk to yourself even while you are thinking or talking to others.

4. Admire instead of compare

As we are the young generation of this world. We phase this problem often while using social media apps, most of the time we compare ourselves with those other people and end up upsetting ourselves.

So instead of that, I learned this new trick, which is that we should admire them as one of our goals in our life, and chase those goals till we reach them.

Doesn’t it sound so positive and motivating? I think you should definitely try this.

Let us know your opinions in the comments. thank you for all the love and support.

-By Gayatri

May affirmations

Hello everyone!! New month new start Affirmations for this month.

Starting this as a reminder for every day of this month. I believe I can do my best, holding all of me. I can and I will.

Let’s start with affirmations then,

This month is going to the best month for me.
I’m working hard towards my goals.
I am attracting grace into my life.
I inhale confidence and exhale fear.
I am achieving my set goals.
I rid myself of anxiety.
This year is still my year to do amazing things.
I am in charge of my finances.
I am manifesting my dream life.

Thank you for reading. Follow and like for more. Stay safe and stay healthy.

-By Gayatri

Hardworking Tears

Have you ever been an athlete? If yes, you must know how hard work you did and what you learn from those days.
If you have never been an athlete. It’s ok you might have seen a competition once in your life.
The athlete is for just a few hours or days in front of us. But for those few days how much they have spent their sweat and effort.
Their dedication for be a winner.

But have you ever observe when the participant won the competition. Why he or, she cries over that. Even though they won the competition then why they been a sad person.

That tears are of hard work, that tears are of the amount of time they have put on extra on themselves. That tears are of the sacrifice of all the things they wanted to do but they didn’t.
That tears are the results of the sweat and blood working towards that goal to Achieve.

That awards makes them so much overwhelmed. That they just can’t control over there emotions.

You can be a winner Or loser in your life. Keep going ahead is a apart of life. Be true to your goals.

Thank you. Follow and like for more. Stay safe and stay healthy.

-By Gayatri

Are Losers and winners the same??

Have you ever noticed that winners and losers have the same aim to achieve the goals, but at last only one person ends up with the trophy!

We only concentrate on the person who ends up winning and mistakenly assumes that ambitious goals led to their success while overlooking all of the people who had the same objective but didn’t succeed.

Every Olympian player wants to win the gold medal. Every candidate wants to get jobs. Every dreamer wants to achieve his /her dreams.

Even if we are successful or may not be able to be successful but the people share the same goals, then the goals cannot differentiate who’s the winner and who’s the loser.

So the James Clear says,

“Achieving a goal only changes your life for the moment. That’s the counterintuitive thing about improvement. We think we need to change our result, but the result is not the problem. What we really need to change are the systems that cause those results. When you solve problems at the results level, you only solve them temporarily. To improve for good, you need to solve problems at the systems level.”

The goals had always been there. It was only when they implemented a system of continuous small improvements that they achieve a different outcome.

You need to make it your priority to find ways to not only get lost in the process of doing but also, to make your goal the improvement of these rituals.

What will fundamentally determine our level of success is the way we approach the systems to get there. It’s working smarter, not harder.

So, think about your goals and their priorities and try to achieve those goals in mind that I will be the winner and even then, you didn’t win you would always remember that you gave your best to win.

So, what path you will choose to achieve those goals and become the winner?

What are your goals? Comment below and let us know.

-By Gayatri

Affirmation for February 2021

Hey guys!!
Let’s start this new month with the affirmation. I observe around and I got this best feeling. When you once start with the affirmation every day or weeks or months,
it makes you more work towards the positive side of your life.

All my goals for this month are achievable.
I’m grateful for all things I have.
New opportunities are coming on my way.
I’m blessed with the best people.
I’m surrounded by the positive vibes.
My mind and body are healthy.
I enjoy the little things around me.

Saying your affirmation daily soon you will see them manifest in your life. Have a great month with love and joy. This month of love you will receive. Have a try and you will receive your affirmation becoming manifesting.

Thank you for reading our blog. Follow and like for more. Stay safe and stay healthy.

-By Gayatri